This past week in my class we talked about Parenting. With parenting there are five universal needs which are power, contact/belonging, protection, withdrawl, and challenge. With contact/belonging our need for this is so great that it significantly influences us. Another thing I thought was interesting is that we have a tremendous need to contribute and that kids love to do so. Also we should notice people's efforts and attempts, this helps validate them instead of putting them down for trying. The last thing that I think is key is understand your kids needs, don't try to control them.